In this year’s State of the Union address, President Obama brought some much-needed attention to the topic of family leave. In the months since, he and some of his allies in Congress have been championing the “Healthy Families Act,” which establishes guidelines providing that all employees receive up to seven days of paid leave. This paid time away can fall under the category of “sick leave,” but the leave could alternatively be spent caring for a chronically ill loved one. In 2006-2007, I had the privilege of following the health care story of Thor Lem and his family. I was in the midst of producing my documentary film “American Heart,” which looks at health care through the eyes of three refugees living in the